I don't mean good looking. Are you attractive? Are others attracted to who you are and what you are becoming? If not, why not? What are the strategies to be more attractive?
The strategies are real simple. Are you honest? Do you walk with integrity? Are you transparent? Are you interesting? Is your focus on self or others?
When you are in a room with others and speaking to one person, where are you looking? Are you looking into the eyes of the person you are having a conversation with or are you looking around the room to see who might be more important to hang out with?
Many years ago I was in Chicago at a motivational event with one of my all time favorite speakers, Jim Rohn. I was front row and center. Several times thoughout the day, Jim Rohn made eye contact me. I don't mean a simple glance. When he made eye contact, it seemed like an eternity. I remember at one of the breaks, I went up to him to ask a question. Not once during that conversation, did we ever lose eye contact. There were over 2000 people in the room. I felt like I was the most important person in the room. That was over 20 years ago and a lesson I never forgot from a master communicator.